I know why men don't carry a child for nine months: it's because we can't. Hell, I was depressed about the snowstorm yesterday, so after putting my son to bed, I just ate a ton of brownies and went to sleep.
I see my wife handle things and keep her patience in situations where I would probably just self-destruct, which is why I think it's nature's design to have women carry children.
This is why I'm always amazed to see moms throw other moms under the bus whenever they get a chance to criticize them for the way they're raising their children.
To the mom who's breastfeeding: Way to go! It really is an amazing gift to give your baby, for any amount of time that you can manage! You're a good mom.
To the mom who's formula feeding: Isn't science amazing? To think there was a time when a baby with a mother who couldn't produce enough would suffer, but now? Better living through chemistry! You're a good mom.
To the cloth diapering mom: Fluffy bums are the cutest, and so friendly on the bank account. You're a good mom.
To the disposable diapering mom: Wow those things hold a lot, and it's excellent to not worry about leakage and laundry! You're a good mom.
To the mom who stays home: I can imagine it isn't easy doing what you do, but to spend those precious years with your babies must be amazing. You're a good mom.
To the mom who works: It's wonderful that you're sticking to your career, you're a positive role model for your children in so many ways, it's fantastic. You're a good mom.
To the mom who had to feed her kids from the drive thru all week because you're too worn out to cook or go grocery shopping: You're feeding your kids, and hey, I bet they aren't complaining! Sometimes sanity can indeed be found in a white bag with a big red chick on it. You're a good mom.
To the mom who gave her kids a homecooked breakfast lunch and dinner for the past week: Excellent! Good nutrition is important, and they're learning to enjoy healthy foods at an early age, a boon for the rest of their lives. You're a good mom.
To the mom with the kids who are sitting quietly and using their manners in the fancy restaurant: Kudos, it takes a lot to maintain order with children in a place where they can't run around. You're a good mom.
To the mom with the toddler having a meltdown in the cereal aisle: they always seem to pick the most embarrassing places to lose their minds don't they? We've all been through it. You're a good mom.
To the moms who judge other moms for ANY of the above?
Glass houses, friend. Glass houses.
Great post! Great moms come in varied "packages"!
I just cried!! This is the most amazing thing I have ever read!
Love this ❤ we should be supporting each other more instead of comparing and judging. Being a mom is the hardest job in the world and you are an amazing mom if you are doing your best!
Because Moms rule.