Alcohol is a curious little substance as people's personalities tend to change a bit when under the influence. We all have those quiet, tough-guy friends who become garrulous puppy dogs when they're drunk, and then those other friends who are absolute nice guys during the day but once the sun goes down and the liquor flows, they become angry monsters.
Then you've got people like me who just become more insufferable versions of themselves.
There's no denying though that the difference between someone drunk and sober is pretty friggin' significant. And sometimes our drunk versions of ourselves try their best to help our sober selves out. And other times, well, they're total d**ks.
Growing up as a Muslim-Albanian family with very patriarchal ideas on the way a family is supposed to operate, my idea of what a father should be was a very "man's man" one.
He brings home the bacon, laughs maybe five times a year, and was really into Clint Eastwood and Martin Scorcese movies. Oh, and a Marlboro Red had to be perpetually hanging out the side of his mouth.
Fast forward years later and here I am, dadding it up, and I'm not that, like, at all. The manliest thing I probably do is hit the gym, bro, and not shave my chest hair. Other than that though, I'm nothing like the former generation of "guy's guys" that raised me. Which I'm totally cool with, because I'm already learning special hair braids to try out on my daughter once she gets older. Because her old man might be a North Jersey meathead, but he's going to be a meathead who doesn't mind having tea parties and getting his nails painted with his little girl.