It doesn't matter who you date, if you're gay or straight, there will always be one person in the couple who makes mincemeat of romance. You can usually tell who it is when you look through social media feeds. One person is all hearts and flowers, the other is farts and sex jokes. But it works, because they balance each other.
Twitter user @lildellapenna made it clear that this is not a dynamic that falls cleanly along the man/woman binary. She's in a relationship with another woman, but they clearly have different perspectives on appropriate posts for friends and family. She shared two screenshots of a picture both she and her girlfriend posted on Instagram, but they've got extremely different captions: