It can be difficult to know when you're in a controlling relationship. But Reddit user jackcolours recently shared an example that's pretty obvious. His friend, Ben, recently wished a friend called Jess a happy birthday on Facebook as any normal person would when Facebook sends you a notification.
But as it turns out, Jess' boyfriend wasn't very happy about the exchange...
This guy has issues.
It even spread to Instagram.
Jackcolours explained that things spread to Instagram because the boyfriend deleted Ben from Jess' Facebook:
"I think he is very loosely 'friends' with her, and he was just being polite by wishing her a happy birthday. he then got these messages and decided steer clear of the whole situation, i've met the guy who is being hostile here and he was very clearly a person who has many facets to his personality."
As you can imagine, people were concerned.
She definitely needs to get out of there.