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Source: 20th century fox

Clueless Dude Sends His Tinder Date 15 Tips on How She Could Improve Herself

By Mustafa Gatollari

Tons of stand-up comedians build entire careers on their inability to talk to members of the opposite sex, especially male comedians.

Maybe it's due to awkwardness, or growing up in a family dynamic that was inherently patriarchal, or being part of a religious community that frowns heavily on the "co-mingling" of different genders. Maybe they were nerdy teens growing up or they were dealing with self-esteem issues.

Communicating via text, especially through internet dating services or random social media DMs, has only further exacerbated these woes for people. Some of their cluelessness can be chalked up to naïveté.

But in some instances, the poor efforts in communication are just a result of ignorance or being flat-out, misogynistic, jerkwads.

Often, men's mean and callous comments toward women on dating sites are a direct result of an inability to handle rejection. So fragile are our egos (this is coming from a dude who's got a pretty frail ego and perception of himself) that we might fall into the trap of attacking someone else in a ruthless fashion.

Some people are better at identifying this in themselves than others. Sadly, the dude who went on a Tinder date with 24-year-old Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford wasn't one of those self aware guys.