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Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle Aren't Enemies, But They're Not Exactly BFFs Either

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They're among the most talked about royals in the world, they always seem happy when they're together and they're both married to guys that countless girls have had crushes on. 

So naturally, this must mean that Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle are royal besties, right? 

Not so fast. Considering all the rumors of their alleged feud and the recent shocking announcement from Meghan and Prince Harry, we have reason to believe that they're probably not as close they often appear to be. Here's what we know.

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There was a rumored feud between Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton, but are they really friends?

Since 2018, there was reportedly some hostility between to two, although some sources have denied this. It apparently began with a disagreement over the dress that Princess Charlotte would wear to Meghan's wedding in May and this caused Kate to cry. 

It also didn't help matters that Meghan and Harry weren't present for Kate's 37th birthday. It was reported that neither of them got an invite due to tension between the two couples, but one source suggested that the rumors were being taken a bit too far.

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They brought up the fact that both couples had enjoyed celebrating Christmas together in 2017 and, therefore, were on good terms. They said: "They really loved Christmas and all had a wonderful time. I think the two women got on — they are definitely not best friends, but it was a really special time for them all to spend together.”   

One source claimed they will "never be best friends."

Another source close to the royal family opened up to Us Weekly and explained that they'll "never be best friends, but they’re civil,” also pointing out the fact that they're “from two totally different worlds”. 

With such different backgrounds and values, we imagine that they don't relate to one another as easily. Still, this doesn't necessarily mean that they're at odds.

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Body language experts also agree that they're not necessarily BFFs, but on good terms.

Judging by their similar styles, or rather, Meghan's tendency to mirror her sister-in-law at public events, it's clear that there's some respect between the two, as well as a "desire for rapport and team acceptance". 

Expert Judi James said: "By also mirroring Kate’s elegant two-handed clutch bag pose this could form a trio of body language techniques known as mirror-pace-lead. This is where you mirror the other person to create rapport and empathy before ‘leading’ them into more strongly bonded displays of shared laughter or touch". 

Kate didn't look too happy about Meghan and Harry's announcement.

With the recent news of Meghan Markle and Prince Harry deciding to establish their independence, it's safe to say that there's trouble in royal paradise. The news apparently left the family blindsided and disappointed, especially since several members were not consulted first. But in the midst of this shocking announcement, we imagine that no one is as disappointed as Kate.  

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The announcement came shortly before her 38th birthday (talk about the worst possible timing). So when she was spotted looking rather glum on her birthday, we figured that Meghan and Harry's recent surprise might've had something to do with it. But does this mean that there's a feud going on between the two royals? Most likely not, but it's tough to tell, as this announcement will only make their relationship even more complicated.

In June of 2019, fans suspected their alleged feud had extended to their husbands when the Kensington Palace announced Prince Harry and Meghan's departure from the Royal Foundation, which is now only under Prince William and Kate. However, it wasn't due to bad blood, as some were quick to believe. It turns out the two felt inspired to start their own organization, which will have the support of the original foundation.

Will they become BFFs in the future?

Multiple sources have already predicted that they never will be, mainly because they are so different. And one source shared that "there was undue pressure where the whole world wanted them to be best friends," so perhaps all the added attention has made it even more challenging for them to truly bond. 

It's good to know that they enjoy each other's company and are on good terms, but one thing's for sure: We probably won't see any cutesy BBF pics of them in the near future.