How to Follow the 'Ultimatum: Queer Love' Cast on Instagram While You Follow Them on Netflix

Chrissy Bobic - Author

May 22 2023, Published 1:49 p.m. ET

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love' cast share a toast together
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The cast for Season 1 of The Ultimatum: Queer Love is here to make some tough decisions and see where they all stand when the dust settles. Want to learn more about them? We've got you covered.

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If you want to know more about everyone outside of the Netflix reality series, we have details on the Instagram accounts for The Ultimatum: Queer Love cast. Read on to learn how to follow them and track their individual journeys on and off the show.

Xander and Vanessa

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Xander and Vanessa embrace
Source: Netflix

Vanessa (30) and Xander (30) were dating for four years before they filmed The Ultimatum: Queer Love. They met in high school by way of their respective boyfriends at the time and later reconnected. Xander is ready for marriage now, but she isn't sure if Vanessa can take that leap just yet, so Xander issued the ultimatum. Xander also wants kids, so if Vanessa can't get there, Xander is ready to walk away. Follow Xander on Instagram at xander.ology and Vanessa at itsvanessapapa.

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Sam and Aussie

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Sam and Aussie smiling together
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Sam (31) and Aussie (42) had been dating for just a year and a half before Sam issued Aussie the ultimatum that brought them to the show. Sam explains on The Ultimatum: Queer Love that she's ready for the "ultimate commitment," but Aussie would prefer to live together for around five years before they take any other serious steps. As of right now, both Sam's and Aussie's Instagram handles are unknown.

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Tiff and Mildred

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Tiff hugs girlfriend Mildred
Source: Netflix

Tiff, who uses they/them pronouns, and Mildred dated for almost two years before they went on The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Mildred (33), gave Tiff (32) the ultimatum. Their issue is that they break up and get back together often and Tiff doesn't want to keep doing that. But they don't want to lose their girlfriend either.

Tiff, a podcaster and co-host of Fweebs Podcast, is on Instagram at tiff.der. Mildred, a Zumba instructor, is mildredbustillo_ on Instagram.

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Yoly and Mal

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Yoly and Mal hug
Source: Netflix

Mal (36) and Yoly (34) dated for three years before Yoly, a wardrobe consultant and personal stylist, issued the ultimatum on Mal, an influencer. Yoly explains that she "needs to feel" that Mal chooses her. Mal wants to save money for a ring, a house, and kids before getting engaged. Despite the circumstances, though, Yoly is confident that they will "choose each other" when it's all said and done. You can follow Yoly at yolyredrum on Instagram and Mal at igobymal.

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Rae and Lexi

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Rae and Lexi
Source: Netflix

Lexi (25) and Rae (27) dated for over three years leading up to The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Lexi, an influencer, explains that she is ready to marry Rae, a former basketball player and current software engineer. However, Rae isn't there yet. And even though Lexi has their future figured out, the ultimatum is necessary for her. Follow Lexi at lexicgoldberg and Rae at raelyn_cs on Instagram.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love premieres on Netflix on May 24.

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