Who Is Selena Gomez Dating? Plus: A Look at Her Relationship History

Selena Gomez was said to be dating Zayn Malik for a brief period. Are the two still an item? Here's the scoop on Selena's relationship status.


Mar. 27 2023, Updated 11:50 a.m. ET

Selena Gomez celebrates the launch of Rare Beauty's Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Collection on March 29, 2023 in New York City. (Photo by Cindy Ord/Getty Images)

Just in case you were wondering, Selena Gomez appears to be thriving. The Only Murders in the Building star and Rare Beauty guru is no stranger to being a subject of the gossip mill — oftentimes when it comes to her former flames — but the singer-actress seems to be living her best life, and we love to see it.

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Still, fans want to know: Is Selena dating anyone?

Here's everything we know about Selena's current relationship status, plus a look back at all of her exes.

Selena Gomez attends a private screening of "Selena Gomez: My Mind and Me" hosted by the Rare Impact Fund at SoHo House New York on December 14, 2022 in New York City. (Photo by Cindy Ord/Getty Images for Rare Impact Fund)
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Is Selena Gomez dating anyone?

Selena appears to be single at the moment. In fact, she said as much in a now-viral TikTok video from June 8, 2023, in which she's seen yelling out to some soccer players, "I'm single. I'm just a little high-maintenance. But I'll love you soooo much."

She hilariously captioned the video, "The struggle man lol."

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Who has Selena Gomez dated in the past? A look at her ex-boyfriends.

Selena's past dating history includes more than just one famous face. She briefly dated Twilight actor Taylor Lautner in 2009, and the two reportedly stayed on amicable terms following their breakup.

Her most famous relationship, which was with Justin Bieber, began in 2010 and was on and off until 2018.

In an unconfirmed rumor, Selena also romanced Orlando Bloom in 2014 after it was suspected that Justin had a dalliance with Orlando's ex-wife, Miranda Kerr. But Selena and Justin got back together shortly thereafter.

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Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber
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Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber

She was linked to Zedd after collaborating on "I Want You to Know" in 2015, and then to Fyre Festival booker Samuel Krost in 2016.

Singer Charlie Puth confirmed two years after the fact that he dated the "Back to You" singer in 2016. In fact, his song "We Don't Talk Anymore" is about her.

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Selena Gomez and The Weeknd attend an event together.
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Selena Gomez and The Weeknd

Aside from her romance with Justin Bieber, Selena's most public relationship was with The Weeknd, whom she dated from January to October of 2017. The two made several red carpet appearances together before The Weeknd reunited with his ex Bella Hadid shortly after their breakup.

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Selena was then rumored to be dating Tyga and film producer Andrea Iervolino in August 2022. That month, TMZ reported that the "Rare" songstress and the "Taste" rapper were spotted leaving The Nice Guy in West Hollywood at 2:30 a.m. While a source said the duo were there to see different groups of people, they ended up hanging out together inside.

Tyga was also in attendance at Sel's 30th birthday party, with evidence of the event on Instagram.

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Then, Selena was rumored to be dating Drew Taggart of the Chainsmokers. Us Weekly reported that the two were an item in January 2023, but it seems that their relationship was short-lived.

In March 2023, rumors swirled that Selena was seeing former One Direction member Zayn Malik. A March 24 TikTok from user Klarissa Garcia reported that a friend of hers, who is a hostess at a restaurant, spotted Zayne and Selena on a restaurant date in New York City. The dating rumors then intensified after the pair was reportedly seen out and about around the city, kissing and holding hands.

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Zayn's ex and the mother of his child, model Gigi Hadid, was reportedly unbothered: "Gigi has no problem whatsoever with Zayn dating,” a source told Us Weekly that same month.

The source continued: “As long as he is happy and stable and continues to be a good co-parent to [their daughter] Khai, she’s fine with whoever he goes out with."

On June 8, 2023, Selena posted the TikTok video about being single. At the end of June 2023, Selena quietly unfollowed Zayn on Instagram. The actress also removed Gigi and her sister Bella Hadid from her friends list. Days later, Gigi reportedly unfollowed Selena.

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